Coaching "YOU" to success

Remember being “21”?

Those “care free” days when all was still possible?
Did you get what you wanted? Realise those dreams, fulfil any ambitions?

How do you get by in your life now? So life dealt you a deck of cards. Did you learn to play it well? Or did you just let the cards “fall” as they may?

Imagine an alien landed on this planet and asked you to explain or measure your “success” in life what would you say?

Have you lived your life truly, freely and without constraint? How many times have you held back?

What is “COACHING” anyway? Coaching asks these powerful questions of you.

Do you know what you believe? What your “patterns” in love are? Want to feel more natural and relaxed about your desire to date younger men?

Do you know how to transform and overcome the blocks or barriers standing in your way? Find out the questions to ask your-self and then reframe these things.

How do you know? Are you armed with the right information to make the best choices? Do you regularly take time to “reflect”?

Most of us only “get by” because we use “average” tools to get us there. Ask yourself what results would you get if you kept using a tool box with kit that was worn down, out dated or needed repair?

I hear, “I don’t know how to?” or “I don’t know where to start?”

What are you fearful of? What have you got to loose? What’s it worth?

Do you want to see yourself differently? What if you did? What would happen?

Are you living your life spontaneously? Or is it weighed down by:

I can’t
I don’t have
Not yet
Not enough

Do you make excuses for that which does not work in your life?

When is it ever going to be your time?

If any of this resonates then I encourage YOU to engage in the “coaching” process. There are valuable nuggets of gold waiting to be discovered.

It’s been a major tool in my life. I invite you to step put of your zone TODAY….

Visit my website http://www.womenwholoveyoungermen.com/ and sign up for a free coaching consultation…

..Until we meet again to break the rules again....

Rita x

Life Coaches Life Story..and more!

I am, Rita Sangha, the British Life Coach and Expert in Younger Love. For Women who love Younger men.

Want to know how I got here? To know how I demolished my “dinosaurs”? Hear about my trials and tribulations?

Walk in my shoes and see how I hit “rock” bottom? Re-live my tantalising tale of twists and turns.

Read my heart-breaking story where I was molested as a child and mentally abused by an “insane” mother. And then how I escaped from a “sleeping with the enemy” type of relationship. How I battled my destructive relationship to sex and alcohol?

Learn how I put on a mask to the world and hid my pain and suffering.

See how I “fought” to “reinvent” myself against the odds and won. How I learnt to heal the broken pieces of a shattered past and move on.

Hear how I am no stranger to dating younger men and rarely date men older than myself. And how dating younger men has given me confidence and increased self-esteem.

Watch the transformation from fearful and confused to an “empowered” and “strong” woman. To be serialised on my website AND you can read it as an e-book, you’ll be glued to the page!

This is why I now help women on their journey to “empowerment” and why I created the Women Who Love Younger Men programme.

Excitingly I am also releasing a step-by-step coaching program that offers encouragement and inspiration to women who love younger men and who thrive on "Living life to its sparkling fullest," wanting, and expecting more from love and life.

I have also has released a new e-book titled: Women Who Love Younger Men Acid Test; Is He Good Enough For You?

Inside my Younger Men Acid Test – Is he good enough for you? e-book are 26 captivating pages for women who want to expand their horizons in younger love. First, women are asked what dating a younger man could mean for them. Then, they’ll discover how and where to find younger men online, and what to do once they find them.

The reader will be asked soul searching questions, such as, “It’s all about the sex, right?” or, “When did it become acceptable?” or, “Older women deserve to have fun too, right?” or, “Social taboo, others will judge?” There are over 70 questions in this e-book that are probing and clever. Women can discover a lot themselves and the younger men they are considering dating. They will be armed with the right questions to know someone quickly.

PS. Plus included in my e-book Younger Men Acid Test – Is he good enough for you? Treat yourself to 15 more fabulous pictures of Mr Right – the model on the front cover of my e-book and home page. Now that will make you smile, the diet coke guy has nothing on him!

…until we meet again to break the rules again….!

Rita x

Aren't Dinosaurs extinct..? Not quite...

They live in the guise of out-dated and archaic beliefs in the minds of many, white, yellow, black and brown middle aged men (and some women..)! Men whom still predominately influence the thinking in our supposedly free-thinking Western society!

Controversial, yes always! Welcome to my blog..and my world…..my website http://www.womenwholoveyoungermen.com/ ..!
(cue…trumpet and fan fare…lol..x)

The reason I talk about these crumbling and “aging” beliefs…lol..which should have gone out with the ark! Is that we still live in a world where “eye-brows are raised” when a woman dates or indeed loves a younger man?!

Cut to a recent interview in the Sunday British broadsheets with a 60+ craggy looking Harrison Ford (ref: the latest Indiana Jones flick) incidentally it is still ok for him to be the action man then! He is dating Calista Flockhart (of Ally McBeal fame), whom is 20 years his junior, no one bats an eye lid. No derogatory labels for the guy, smirks or reactions. Good on him, they say!...

But whoa….shoot to a recent interview with Kim Cattrall in British Grazia magazine promoting the girls latest movie (aka Samantha from Sex in the City, a must see, out the 28 May 2008!). Kim is dating a man 23 years her junior, and it is a barrage of questions, labels and innuendo’s..!

Why the unequal treatment? Is it fair? Is it right? Hell, no!

Welcome to my world, where I think the voice of women, in particular, who make the choice to date younger men is positively encouraged, supported and fully debated!! Especially as it is controversial! Especially as it raise's eyebrows! We love the attention, because we are bold and we’re proud and we just know we are worth it!!!

The whole problem with dinosaurs is that they are big and clumsy. Just because they are big, they think they have all the power..! And boy, do they like to show it off! They thrash around the place, crash, bang, wallop, their big clumsy tails flattening everything around them. How powerful we are? Right?

Wrong..because there was a reason dinosaurs became extinct. They failed to notice the changes, going on around them. They failed to be adaptable, flexible…for god’s sake..they failed to notice the onset of the ice age!!! Eeeks, take those blinkers off boyz…

All that time the smarter, shrewder animals were making provisions, planning watching and observing..smelling the changes in the air!!

They knew things were going to change, it was only a matter of playing the waiting game..

Some of the weaker animals felt afraid and wanted the big dinosaurs to protect them and surely they would come up with a plan for the storm that was brewing..?

However the strongest, most aware of these animals knew that brave hearts full of courage were called for, and the dinosaurs would fail them..! They had literally grown too big for their boots and would destroy them all..! (I love metaphor don’t you..!)

This is how dangerous it is, when “we” collectively begin to believe, there is one set of norms, one set of rules that we all have to live to! It’s downright blinkered, clumsy and damaging – it’s controlling and always comes down to fear. Fear of change, omg – changing the status quo, the way it is…!!

And guess what happens when we control & suppress, an under-current builds... Change cannot be held down, creativity and expression must be allowed. Otherwise the powerful forces of suppression create a counter-effect – a tsunami of energy waiting to blow!!!!

And guess what those silly dinosaur boyz did..hmmm, they were defintely all boyz…nay men…nay older men..! Because generally they are the ones set in their ways and rigid in their thinking, inflexible in their beliefs..(apologies to the enlightened older men out there – albeit a small minority!)

What did they do to their world…let me think….hmmm…so to the Women who love younger men and the rest of you..what is the moral of the story...?

.I’ll leave it to your fertile imaginations, watch out for those dinosaurs…! Lmao..lol

..until we meet again to break the rules again....!

Rita x

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