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Whats NEW - March 2010!? Next meet up...

2010-03-02T05:51:00.000-08:00

Hey guys - how is everyone in the "Cougar and Cub world"!??

Now that the UK has woken up to the word "Cougar" and its become part of the UK's vernacular! Someone recently described this movement as "Zeitgeist" - just shows you how its captured everyones imagination!

This month I appeared in Loaded Magazine - see April's 2010 issue! See the photo above - all good fun!

Here are the details of the next meet up, guys by invite only due to overwhelming demand!;0

Cougar N Cubs, "Speed Meet" Dating Event

Thursday March 18 2010

7.30pm London W1

This event is aimed at men aged 19-39 and women aged 30-55

About: Everyone will be given an "ice-breaker" to help meet each other.

Start: Event starts 7.30pm prompt

Speed Meet dating finishes at apporx. 9.00pm - Venue closes 1.00am

Price: £10.00 by credit/debit card (incl free drink)

Book: email cougarparties@yahoo.co.uk

Till we meet again to break the rules!

Rita x

Women who love younger men "Singles" Party - 20th Nov 2009

2009-10-03T03:50:00.000-07:00

London, Harrow, UK 1st "Singles Party" Friday 2Oth November 2009, 7.30pm
sponsored by womenwholoveyoungermen.com
COST: Free entry.

First come, first serve, email cougarparties@yahoo.co.uk to get your name on the list!

Remember to go join my facebook page (there is an facebook event link too for the party), if your a social networker!!
JOIN my Facebook group: http://www.facebook.com/pages/Women-Who-Love-Younger-Men/64824864179?ref=mf

Facebook events:http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=144288842562&ref=mf#/event.php?eid=144288842562

Friday, November 20th 2009, 7.30pm
http://www.harrow-hotel.co.uk/
12-22 Pinner Road. HA1 4HZ
Harrow-on-the-Hill Underground Station (Metropolitan Line) is only a 5 minute walk from hotel And only 15 minutes from Central London by tube
Make new friends and Meet single Cougars (Women who love younger men) OR meet single Younger Men (Cubs!)..
7.30pm - Doors open
8.00 - 9.00pm Complimentary buffet available and fully staffed bar
8.00pm-12.00am - Dance Party with DJ, featuring your favorite hits and prize draw for romantic meal for two, free Mary Kay make up demonstrations.Must be over 18 and single.

COST: Free entry.
Discounted overnight rooms at the hotel available for an additional £55 (single) or £75 double. Does not include admission to party.Call 44 (0) 20 8427 3435 for this discounted hotel rate quote "Women who love younger men" singles party.

I sincerely look forward to meeting you all at this fabulous event!

Till we meet again to break the rules!

Rita x

Social Networking - Join my facebook group..

2009-08-16T07:16:00.000-07:00

I know I haven't blogged for ages, few techy issues plus a little known website called Facebook...!

I have created a Women Who Love Younger Men Facebook group, which now has over 350 followers, come join the party...

Join my fb group: http://www.facebook.com/pages/Women-Who-Love-Younger-Men/64824864179?ref=mf

My news is hitting USA shortly for the "Cougar convention.." see the home page..will be fab!

Until we meet again to break the rules..

Rita x

I teach Women to Date Younger Men..!

2009-05-25T13:09:00.000-07:00

So I thought I'd pen a few words about the event I recently held in Birmingham - a big thank you to the Malmaison Hotel for their fab hospitality and facilities...And to my star "cougar" who travelled all the way down from Liverpool - great to meet you all!

I thought I'd give a taste of what I covered, the recetion and feedback was great - so I'm glad the formulae delivered its promise..! Next time I hope we can persuade more younger men to show so the ladies can practise what they learnt on them...

Some said it just made them think about things differently and appreciate being in the "cougar" club better!

Here is what I covered:

1. Exploding the “Myths”?
2. Women & Aging - the role models?
3. Celebrities dating Younger men?
4. Is it good enough for you and me?
5. Why are more Women doing it?
6. Younger Men - why?
7. “Love” with Younger Men?

Rules of dating
“Re-inventing" Romance
Relationship Types
Laws of Attraction – pulling!

Thats a great snapshot..I think! Hope to see you at the next event - JULY 2009, LONDON...venue to be confirmed..

Until we meet again to break the rules..

Rita x

A Younger Man - Is he right for you?

2009-01-24T03:36:00.000-08:00

What are the issues to consider?

They are Women's power to choose, the "benefits" of dating a younger man, what the rest of the world has to say, and whether you feel good enough to date a younger man. We also need to consider, Younger Men - is it infatuation or are they seriously looking for love?

All this and more will be covered in the "tele-seminars" I will be running in MARCH 2009 (keep an eye on my "events" page on http://www.womenwholoveyoungermen.com/ for more details...)

Here are five questions that will help you on the road to know whether dating a younger man could be for you???

Would you enjoy the attention, if you had a young man on your arm? Would your desirability rating go up?
Do you consider the term, "Cougar" or "Milf" offensive (Cougar is known as the predatory woman who's primary interest is in bedding younger men or Milf, known as Mother i'd like to um..er freak!)?
Do you have your act together? Are you confident and empowered? (the expectation being that ladies of a certain age have their act together)
Are you just looking for fun? Looking for a fling? Or are you a late bloomer, who wants to enjoy life after years of waiting on others?
The cons - consider the insecurities that may arise:

Will he like my body?
Will he stay?
How will I deal with others eg. jealousy, negativity or judgement?
How will handle other attractive younger women?

So thats the first instalment.....more next week on this subject....!!

Until we meet again to break the rules...

Rita x

What do Madonna, Jennifer Aniston, Demi Moore and Halle Berry have in common?

2009-01-14T04:05:00.000-08:00

They are all Women Who Love Younger Men!...

As Joan Collins famously said, "Age is irrelevant, unless you happen to be a bottle of wine.."

The Celebrities are setting the trend for "Women Who Love Younger Men" in their growing numbers...They are being represented in our culture everywhere in film, music and fashion.

Joan Collins is well known for her marriages to younger men. Even Mariah Carey is in on the act.

Susan Sarandon has been married to her younger man for years (actor Tim Robbins).

39 year old actress Jennifer Aniston is now single but was seeing musician John Mayer (eight years her junior). She recently bared all on the cover of American GQ, the headline said "Is it us or is she just getting hotter!"...

Madonna was obviously married to younger man Guy Ritchie for seven years but me thinks we will hear more of the material girls passion for younger men in time to come.

British Sense and Sensibility Actress, Emma Thompson (49) is married to her 42 year old husband.

Even women in their 20's are in on the trend, American Pop singer Nicole Scherzinger (Pussy Cat Dolls) is dating the now world famous Lewis Hamilton, formula one champion (seven years younger).

And finally who could not remember the ubiquitous Kim Cattrall from our favourite girl TV show of all time - SATC (Sex in the city!!!)...who was recently interviewed in Good Housekeeping Magazine...She is dating a chef more than twenty years younger..

She says, " He's wonderful. He's funny. He's gorgeous. He's sexy....Really what is my problem..Well a little thing called 23...Then you think who cares!..."

And I say good on her on keeping that younger man flag flying!!!

Visit my website http://www.womenwholoveyoungermen.com/ and remember to sign up for my exciting teleseminar coming SOON - "Is there Life after 40? And for Women Who Love Younger Men….". Until we meet again to break the rules again....

Rita x

Coaching "YOU" to success

2008-09-26T15:07:00.000-07:00

Remember being “21”?

Those “care free” days when all was still possible?
Did you get what you wanted? Realise those dreams, fulfil any ambitions?

How do you get by in your life now? So life dealt you a deck of cards. Did you learn to play it well? Or did you just let the cards “fall” as they may?

Imagine an alien landed on this planet and asked you to explain or measure your “success” in life what would you say?

Have you lived your life truly, freely and without constraint? How many times have you held back?

What is “COACHING” anyway? Coaching asks these powerful questions of you.

Do you know what you believe? What your “patterns” in love are? Want to feel more natural and relaxed about your desire to date younger men?

Do you know how to transform and overcome the blocks or barriers standing in your way? Find out the questions to ask your-self and then reframe these things.

How do you know? Are you armed with the right information to make the best choices? Do you regularly take time to “reflect”?

Most of us only “get by” because we use “average” tools to get us there. Ask yourself what results would you get if you kept using a tool box with kit that was worn down, out dated or needed repair?

I hear, “I don’t know how to?” or “I don’t know where to start?”

What are you fearful of? What have you got to loose? What’s it worth?

Do you want to see yourself differently? What if you did? What would happen?

Are you living your life spontaneously? Or is it weighed down by:

I can’t
I don’t have
Not yet
Not enough

Do you make excuses for that which does not work in your life?

When is it ever going to be your time?

If any of this resonates then I encourage YOU to engage in the “coaching” process. There are valuable nuggets of gold waiting to be discovered.

It’s been a major tool in my life. I invite you to step put of your zone TODAY….

Visit my website http://www.womenwholoveyoungermen.com/ and sign up for a free coaching consultation…

..Until we meet again to break the rules again....

Rita x

Life Coaches Life Story..and more!

2008-08-11T17:04:00.000-07:00

I am, Rita Sangha, the British Life Coach and Expert in Younger Love. For Women who love Younger men.

Want to know how I got here? To know how I demolished my “dinosaurs”? Hear about my trials and tribulations?

Walk in my shoes and see how I hit “rock” bottom? Re-live my tantalising tale of twists and turns.

Read my heart-breaking story where I was mentally abused and molested as a child. And then how I escaped from a “sleeping with the enemy” type of relationship. How I battled my destructive relationship to sex and alcohol?

Learn how I put on a mask to the world and hid my pain and suffering.

See how I “fought” to “reinvent” myself against the odds and won. How I learnt to heal the broken pieces of a shattered past and move on.

Hear how I am no stranger to dating younger men and rarely date men older than myself. And how dating younger men has given me confidence and increased self-esteem.

Watch the transformation from fearful and confused to an “empowered” and “strong” woman. To be serialised on my website AND you can read it as an e-book, you’ll be glued to the page!

This is why I now help women on their journey to “empowerment” and why I created the Women Who Love Younger Men programme.

Excitingly I am also releasing a step-by-step coaching program that offers encouragement and inspiration to women who love younger men and who thrive on "Living life to its sparkling fullest," wanting, and expecting more from love and life.

I have also has released a new e-book titled: Women Who Love Younger Men Acid Test; Is He Good Enough For You?

Inside my Younger Men Acid Test – Is he good enough for you? e-book are 26 captivating pages for women who want to expand their horizons in younger love. First, women are asked what dating a younger man could mean for them. Then, they’ll discover how and where to find younger men online, and what to do once they find them.

The reader will be asked soul searching questions, such as, “It’s all about the sex, right?” or, “When did it become acceptable?” or, “Older women deserve to have fun too, right?” or, “Social taboo, others will judge?” There are over 70 questions in this e-book that are probing and clever. Women can discover a lot themselves and the younger men they are considering dating. They will be armed with the right questions to know someone quickly.

PS. Plus included in my e-book Younger Men Acid Test – Is he good enough for you? Treat yourself to 15 more fabulous pictures of Mr Right – the model on the front cover of my e-book and home page. Now that will make you smile, the diet coke guy has nothing on him!

…until we meet again to break the rules again….!

Rita x

Aren't Dinosaurs extinct..? Not quite...

2008-05-18T07:38:00.000-07:00

They live in the guise of out-dated and archaic beliefs in the minds of many, white, yellow, black and brown middle aged men (and some women..)! Men whom still predominately influence the thinking in our supposedly free-thinking Western society!

Controversial, yes always! Welcome to my blog..and my world…..my website http://www.womenwholoveyoungermen.com/ ..!
(cue…trumpet and fan fare…lol..x)

The reason I talk about these crumbling and “aging” beliefs…lol..which should have gone out with the ark! Is that we still live in a world where “eye-brows are raised” when a woman dates or indeed loves a younger man?!

Cut to a recent interview in the Sunday British broadsheets with a 60+ craggy looking Harrison Ford (ref: the latest Indiana Jones flick) incidentally it is still ok for him to be the action man then! He is dating Calista Flockhart (of Ally McBeal fame), whom is 20 years his junior, no one bats an eye lid. No derogatory labels for the guy, smirks or reactions. Good on him, they say!...

But whoa….shoot to a recent interview with Kim Cattrall in British Grazia magazine promoting the girls latest movie (aka Samantha from Sex in the City, a must see, out the 28 May 2008!). Kim is dating a man 23 years her junior, and it is a barrage of questions, labels and innuendo’s..!

Why the unequal treatment? Is it fair? Is it right? Hell, no!

Welcome to my world, where I think the voice of women, in particular, who make the choice to date younger men is positively encouraged, supported and fully debated!! Especially as it is controversial! Especially as it raise's eyebrows! We love the attention, because we are bold and we’re proud and we just know we are worth it!!!

The whole problem with dinosaurs is that they are big and clumsy. Just because they are big, they think they have all the power..! And boy, do they like to show it off! They thrash around the place, crash, bang, wallop, their big clumsy tails flattening everything around them. How powerful we are? Right?

Wrong..because there was a reason dinosaurs became extinct. They failed to notice the changes, going on around them. They failed to be adaptable, flexible…for god’s sake..they failed to notice the onset of the ice age!!! Eeeks, take those blinkers off boyz…

All that time the smarter, shrewder animals were making provisions, planning watching and observing..smelling the changes in the air!!

They knew things were going to change, it was only a matter of playing the waiting game..

Some of the weaker animals felt afraid and wanted the big dinosaurs to protect them and surely they would come up with a plan for the storm that was brewing..?

However the strongest, most aware of these animals knew that brave hearts full of courage were called for, and the dinosaurs would fail them..! They had literally grown too big for their boots and would destroy them all..! (I love metaphor don’t you..!)

This is how dangerous it is, when “we” collectively begin to believe, there is one set of norms, one set of rules that we all have to live to! It’s downright blinkered, clumsy and damaging – it’s controlling and always comes down to fear. Fear of change, omg – changing the status quo, the way it is…!!

And guess what happens when we control & suppress, an under-current builds... Change cannot be held down, creativity and expression must be allowed. Otherwise the powerful forces of suppression create a counter-effect – a tsunami of energy waiting to blow!!!!

And guess what those silly dinosaur boyz did..hmmm, they were defintely all boyz…nay men…nay older men..! Because generally they are the ones set in their ways and rigid in their thinking, inflexible in their beliefs..(apologies to the enlightened older men out there – albeit a small minority!)

What did they do to their world…let me think….hmmm…so to the Women who love younger men and the rest of you..what is the moral of the story...?

.I’ll leave it to your fertile imaginations, watch out for those dinosaurs…! Lmao..lol

..until we meet again to break the rules again....!

Rita x

Website and Blog Launch!

2008-05-06T23:06:00.000-07:00

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To Younger Love!
Rita Sangha